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adapted from The Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous which read: 1.
We admitted we were powerless over alcohol — that our lives had
become unmanageable.
2.
Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore
us to sanity.
3.
Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care
of God as we understood Him.
4.
Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5.
Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the
exact nature of our wrongs.
6.
Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of
character.
7.
Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8.
Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to
make amends to them all.
9.
Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when
to do so would injure them or others.
10.
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong
promptly admitted it.
11.
Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious
contact with God, as we understood
Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to
carry that out.
12.
Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we
tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these
principles in all our affairs. (The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
of Alcoholics Anonymous have been reprinted and adapted with permission
of Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc. ("AAW.S.").
Permission to reprint and adapt the Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions does not mean that AA is affiliated with this program.
AA is a program of recovery from alcoholism only – use
of AA's Steps and Traditions or an adapted version of its Steps and
Traditions in connection with programs and activities which are
patterned after AA, but which address other problems, or use in any
other non-AA context, does not imply otherwise.
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1.
We admitted we were powerless over our relationship – that our life
together had become unmanageable.
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2.
We came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us
to commitment and intimacy.
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3.
We made a decision to turn our wills and our life together over to the
care of God as we understood God.
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We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of our relationship
together as a couple.
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We admitted to God, to each other, and to another couple the exact
nature of our wrongs.
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We were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of
character, communication, and caring.
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| 7.
We humbly asked God to remove our shortcomings.
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| 8.
We made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make
amends to them all.
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| 9.
We made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to
do so would injure them or others.
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| 10.
We continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly
admitted it to our partner and to others we had harmed.
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| 11.
We sought through our common prayer and meditation to improve our
conscious contact with God as we understood God, praying only for
knowledge of God's will for us and the power to carry that out.
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| 12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to other couples, and to practice these principles in all aspects of our lives, our relationship, and our families. |