SEXUALITY AGREEMENT
For ___________________
Date ____________



We agree to use words to ask each other to be sexual instead of non-verbal 
messages.

We agree that a decision to be sexual together will be a mutual one negotiated 
between adults, in the same way as any other choice.

We agree to attempt awareness of our "presence" during sexual initiation and 
promise to communicate that state of awareness, i.e., we can say "I feel sexually 
attracted to you." It is okay not to have sex even if one of us has communicated 
that he/she is feeling sexual.

We agree to develop and use couple affirmations about our relationship and our 
sexuality.

We agree to work our individual recovery programs as well as our RCA program 
around issues that arise in romance and sexuality.

We agree to remain open to outside counseling opportunities and to work with 
our sponsoring couple.

We agree to pray before and after being sexual together.

We see our sexual, physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual intimacy 
as a growing, important part of our life together. We create time together 
to foster this growth.

We agree to review this agreement together during the first week of each month 
to set a date for our "date day" and weekly to help us stay focused on our 
progress toward our commitment.

This agreement is entered into willingly and lovingly by


_______________________	_____________________	on	______
(Sponsee Couple)	(Sponsee Couple)		date


And lovingly witnessed by our Sponsor Couple;


_______________________	_____________________	on	______
(Sponsor Couple)	(Sponsor Couple)	        date